4 Years of North Carolinianness

I have now lived in North Carolina for 4 years.

Note to stalkers - I no longer have a KS tag

Note to stalkers - I no longer have a KS tag

For the life of me, I can’t exactly remember what day I moved here, or the timeline of that move.  My parents and brother helped drive me and my belongings out here: my dad and mom in the Budget truck, Riley in my parents’ Explorer, and I in my week-old Toyota Camry.  We took 3 days to get here, stopping by Mammoth Cave and generally enjoying the miles and miles of construction zones…without a single construction worker.  We never quite figured out why there was no one working in any of these places, when it was not a normal weekday during normal hours.

Unlike my first blind move (to go to school in Oklahoma), I knew this time that I had hard times ahead of me.  I had an apartment (with roommates I had never met) and a school that I would be attending in the fall, but that was all I knew about my future life.  Sure, I had already applied for the job that would soon be mind, but I had no idea at the time that that would be the case.

I moved to North Carolina in order to attend seminary.  My thought at the time was to get a seminary education, and then head up a women’s or children’s ministry somewhere in the West (my top choices were Phoenix, Salt Lake, and Portland). Instead, I’m happily staying in North Carolina, working with the children at church as a layman, and working a secular, non-profit job in a field I had no prior experience in.

Little did I know that day 4 years ago that God was bringing me home.  Sure, my real home is in heaven, but that heaven-on-earth, my church family, was right here.

17 thoughts on “4 Years of North Carolinianness

  1. What a great post. I was curious about why you ended up there and how and so it was fun to read the “behind the scenes” of it all in a way. I love how God works to surprise us like that sometimes! It sounds like you are set up beautifully to enjoy everything. =) Glad you are home!

  2. Four years…it seems to me like forever. How wonderful to know that you feel you are at home and where you are supposed to be. WAIT…WAIT…WAIT…I think this comes to me every day. Even at my age situations happen that at the time I don’t understand…then suddenly, in HIS time, I do.
    WAIT…WAIT…WAIT…I am so thankful.

  3. God definitely does amazing things with us, when we allow Him to. I never pictured myself working at a non-profit, and yet I love what I do.

    Thank you so much for your prayers for the boys and me during our recent scare. Both boys appear to be doing well after the surgery, and we’ll get to take a look with the ultrasound again tomorrow. Your support was very much appreciated.

  4. God moves and places us where He needs us. Sometimes it just doesn’t make sense or fit the plan ‘we’ create. lol I know it’s very true for me!

    My question to you would be, and maybe it’s post worthy, I’m having transition problems where I am…. how have you progressed, what helped and what would advice would you offer for someone who needs a bit of help blooming where they are planted?

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