Defined

right lane sign

I once thought following the rules defined me.  Then I broke them and found out I was wrong.

ronnica 20

I once thought being a teenager defined me.  Then I turned 20 and found out I was wrong.

kansas sunset

I once thought being a Kansan defined me.  Then I moved and found out I was wrong.

math

I once thought being smart defined me.  Then I failed a test and found out I was wrong.

OU reading

I once thought going to OU defined me.  Then I graduated and found out I was wrong.

textbooks

I once thought being a student defined me.  Then I left academia for good and found out I was wrong.

flower eclipses the sun

I once thought that the God I found and my love of Him defined me.

sunrise steam tree

Then He showed me that He found me and that His love — not mine — defined me.

Photo credits (in order): Manish Bansal, me, libertyslens, Aaron Escobar, osbornb, Wohnai, Hamed Saber, and tomsaint11

34 Comments

  1. jennifer Says:

    Awesome post. Absolutely awesome.

  2. bluntdelivery Says:

    ah… truer words were never spoken.

  3. Mia Says:

    Beautiful post. And so true.
    The perfect words to start my day to!

  4. Lynda Says:

    A lovely post :)

  5. Carrie Says:

    This is an absolutely stunning post. Very thought-provoking and engaging.

  6. Kristina Says:

    Great post. Very, very true.

  7. Bethany Says:

    This is wonderful.

  8. Lady Fi Says:

    Great photos and thoughts.

  9. mikki roo Says:

    This is quite possibly the best blog post I’ve ever read! Thanks so much for sharing it…

  10. Ronnica Says:

    Thanks for the compliments, all. I was excited to share this with you all as it was something God placed on my heart while I was falling asleep a couple of nights ago.

  11. joy in the Burbs Says:

    What a great way to think of this. Boy we do like to “define” things don’t we.

    Joy

  12. hi-d Says:

    Beautiful. I love this. You are so right on.

  13. Barry Wallace Says:

    Defined by God’s grace. As many others have already noted, that is a beautiful (and humbling) thought.

  14. Three Bay B Chicks Says:

    Oh my goodness, my friend. I do believe that this is my most favorite post from you of all time.

    Absolutely lovely. Well done!

    -Francesca

  15. Caity
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    Oh that is gorgeous. Beautiful post. :)

  16. Chere
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    Fantastic post! I found myself nodding my head and saying “mm hmm” every so often. It’s amazing all the fleeting ways we find to define ourselves (or let others define us as).

  17. Playful Professional Says:

    Beautiful post.

  18. debbie Says:

    What true words! I loved this.

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  20. Amber Says:

    Fantastic post.

  21. Pretty Prats Says:

    So beautiful thougths !! last line was just perfect !

  22. Lillie Ammann Says:

    Ronnica,

    Beautiful photos and beautiful words.

  23. Rebecca Says:

    Great great post.

  24. mrsmouthy Says:

    I love this post! It deserves to be on a poster, sold at Hallmark or something.

  25. Betty Says:

    wow! very well written, beautiful words and so very true!!!

    betty

  26. Irish Coffeehouse Says:

    Fabulous! Such profound truths one will never know until they actually endure and LOOK for them! :o)

  27. Ronnica Says:

    @Francesca: Thank you. I love this one, too!

    @Mrs. Mouthy: I think I might cringe if I saw it like that. I’m not a big fan of the motivational card/poster type of thing!

  28. Daja Says:

    This is profoundly awesome. Thank you for sharing it!

  29. slamdunk Says:

    Inspirational post–thanks for sharing.

  30. carma Says:

    nice!

  31. Rachel Cotterill Says:

    I can’t put into words what I think defines me. I’ve never really defined myself by anything external… Thanks for the thought-provoking post.

  32. lora Says:

    amazing–LOVE it.

  33. WhiteSockGirl aka The Fabulous Bitch Says:

    Interesting because it so applied to me. I also came to realize that labels don’t define me.

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