Comments on: A Lonely Life

By: Cheryl

Cheryl — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 13:53:01 +0000

Sweet Ronnica, I will echo what others have said. It is good that your are learning how to turn to God in times of loneliness because loneliness does not necessarily equal alone. There will be times in your life when you are surrounded by all that you wanted, and you will have seasons of loneliness. If you can learn what to do in those times now, it will serve you very well in your years to come!

By: Rodney Olsen

Rodney Olsen — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 07:10:15 +0000

When I look back I can remember those times of loneliness and the immense pain that they bring. Having friends tell me that “God has someone waiting for you” made it even more difficult at times. We have no way of telling what God has in store around the corner and at the time I didn’t know if I was about to meet the love of my life or if I’d spend the rest of my life alone.

My wife and I met when we were both 28. I really wish that we’d met earlier but it seems that wasn’t the plan.

I’ll continue to pray that God brings you comfort in the lonely times and that someone who’s worthy of such a special lady will cross your path very soon.

By: RhondaLue

RhondaLue — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 04:16:54 +0000

Isn’t interesting to hear that even people surrounded by immediate family feel loneliness too? It’s something I bet most people think they’ll never be once they have a spouse or children but that just isn’t the case.

My mother has been feeling a deep loneliness right now too. Dad’s been gone for 17 months and it’s as raw and empty as the day he left, if not more so with each passing day. It’s something as a daughter and friend I can’t fix, even with frequent invites and visits. I wish I could heal the hearts of all my loved ones and friends but unfortunately, cannot.

I’m glad you did this post. It’s nice to hear the real life things that happen or are felt instead of the just the rainbows and sunshine.

By: Ari

Ari — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 02:09:31 +0000

Awww thanks for sharing. I definitely know how that feels, I’ve been feeling that way a bit lately.. but I know it does pass, as always! And life is good!

By: Lady Fi

Lady Fi — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 17:53:41 +0000

We all go through times of loneliness… not much comfort, I know. But know that this too will pass.

Hugs!

By: Carrie

Carrie — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:32:44 +0000

I love and appreciate your honesty in posts such as these. It really is beautiful to see. And it’s REAL (which I love). Thank you for it….it is your ministry (even if you might wish for another)….for now.

By: shraddha

shraddha — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:28:17 +0000

hugs and love to you.

email me anytime, i am here for you.

By: Ronnica

Ronnica — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:07:06 +0000

Elizabeth: Thank you. This has been a trying time, but I have been clinging to God through it and can almost feel myself growing. I know I have a LONG ways to go, but I’m going in the right direction. And I’ve missed seeing you around, too…saw Avery yesterday morning, and I of course made her give me a hug!

Vicki: I know that Satan has a hand in it, because this loneliness could have derailed me in Turkey (that’s when it started). Instead, I chose to use it to help me focus on God.

Rebecca Jo and Jacki: Sometimes it just seems like others couldn’t be lonely because of X, so it’s great to hear you guys agree (though I wouldn’t wish loneliness on you!).

G. Zoe: We DO care, truly. Can’t wait to see you in a couple of days!

By: Jacki

Jacki — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 14:31:05 +0000

I am sorry you are going through this. I have never been where you are emotionally, because before I met Peter, I never had the desire for marriage and children. I was happy working, going to school, and traveling.

But there are times I feel like Rebecca Jo….no matter if you are married or not…you can feel alone even though you are surrounded by tons of people.

{{{HUGS}}}

By: GZoe

GZoe — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 13:50:07 +0000

And here I am to tell you even at my age there are times of loneliness when you know family is gone, children grown, seem like they don’t care any more. HOWEVER, GOD is never out of the picture. How much comfort I feel sitting in my rocking chair, looking out the window, knowing HE is everywhere, and that HE is there for me. Try seeking out another person, HE will show you, who you think is lonely, talk to them…share your loneliness. Step out, up, or whatever…you are not alone.