Sticktoitiveness in my 20s

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holding-handsOne thing I’ve noticed lately as I’ve been cruising the 20-something blogosphere is how many bloggers my age have shut down their blog or quit blogging.  Now, I suppose this is pretty common throughout the blogosphere, but it seems to me that this points to a greater problem that my generation (whatever you want to call us) has: by and large we lack sticktoitiveness.

Is it something that we’ll grow out of?  Perhaps.  Maybe this same problem has been seen in previous generations when they were our age, but I think even if that was so, there’s something different about our situation.  We now live in a day and age where most people are moving around multiple times, changing jobs, changing friends, changing belief systems, and changing spouses.

It even has gotten to the point where people who stick to their marriages, career paths, and hometowns are often viewed as sheltered and in need of “living a little.”  Since when has living been defined by change for change’s sake?

I don’t know how this trend can be reversed, or even if that needs to happen completely.  Since I moved to North Carolina (see, I am a product of my generation), I’ve realized the value of sticking in one place.  I’m sure my family would have appreciated me realizing that before I left Kansas, but here I am, and I know it’s exactly where God wants me.

Now that I’m here, I don’t plan to leave, unless God makes it clear I’m to go.  I don’t want to leave the church and go somewhere else; if I go, it’ll be because I’m being send out.  I may not be able to reverse the trend, but I can choose not to go along with it.  Here’s to sticktoitiveness.  (If you say it enough times, does that make it a word?)

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Where I’ll Live When I Grow Up

Oh, so Britni has this post up about the top 24 places she’s supposed to enjoy living. I filled out the survey too, and here’s what it came up with. To be fair, I didn’t specify a region, because I like the midwest, have always wanted to live on the West Coast, and currently live in the East. I’ve included my commentary, but I’d love your input, especially if you live in any one of these areas! (No, I’m not planning on moving. Except my move into Raleigh in a couple of weeks. I love where I live now and don’t plan on seeking a change just yet).

1. Brownsville, Texas
I think I could live in Texas…if it wasn’t for all the Texans.

2. McAllen, Texas

3. West Palm Beach, Florida
Now your talking…the best beach I ever went to was there.

4. Phoenix, Arizona
It’s not just in my imagination! I’ve wanted to live in Phoenix ever since I spent the summer of 2003 there.

5. Tucson, Arizona

6. Tampa, Florida

7. Houston, Texas
At least I have friends that live there.

8. Corpus Christi, Texas

9. Orlando, Florida
Then I could come into contact with lots of my worst fears.

10. Charleston, South Carolina

11. Dothan, Alabama
The “Peanut Capital of the World”…as long as I don’t have to eat boiled peanuts to live there.

12. Augusta, Georgia
Just give me free tickets to the Masters, and I’ll move there.

13. Galveston, Texas

14. Clearwater, Florida
Another place with a great beach…aah.

15. Miami Beach, Florida
Repeat the beach comment.

16. Scottsdale, Arizona

17. El Paso, Texas
I do think that I would prefer to live in South Texas if I was living in Texas. But I’ve never been further South than Waco.

18. St. George, Utah

19. Miami, Florida

20. Bradenton, Florida

21. Austin, Texas
Over my dead body.

22. San Antonio, Texas

23. Savannah, Georgia

24. Lake Havasu, Arizona

Interesting list. If I was making it for myself, at least one midwest city would have made the list. Instead, it looks like I should live in Florida, Texas, or Arizona. I’d prefer the latter. Yes, I said something about preferring the heat, thus all the hot cities. You got a problem with that?

If you decide to take the quiz, let me know your results!