Long Time Quotes

It’s been a while since I’ve shared with you some quotes…I haven’t done as much reading as I used to!  Chalk it up to summer laziness, I guess.  As evidenced by the two 24 quotes.

“With what we’ve been through in the last 18 hours, I’m sure he’s pulled in 10 different directions.” – Mike Novak
“We were and in some ways still are on the brink of war. I’m the commander in chief. When I call, there is only one direction.” – President David Palmer, 24, Day 2, 3:00 AM

“If you believe not me, read here in this book, and for the truth of what is expressed therein, behold, all is confimred by the blood of Him that made it.” John Bunyan, Pilgrim Progress, p. 5

“I wish people–including me–had a more visceral reaction to reading.” – A. J. Jacobs, The Know-It-All, p. 211

“Li only needed the simplicity of routine to keep her spirit satisfied.” – Gail Tsukiyama, The Women of the Silk, p. 229

“Don’t play dead before you have to.” – Wally Lamb, The Hour I First Believed, p. 75

“Now that I’m sitting in that chair…I’m starting to wonder if I’m the right person to lead this country.” – President Wayne Palmer
“That’s an irrelevant question, sir.” – Tom Lennox
“Excuse me?”
“You will lead this country whether you want to or not. You are the president.” – 24, Day 6, 6:00 AM

“I want to leave a lasting impression on the world.” – Eric Harris’s journal (one of the Columbine shooters)

It’s Not about Sex

beach coupleI’m not sure if you’ve noticed (okay, I’m sure you have), but our society is obsessed with sex.  Sex sells.  ”Adult” content primarily means sex, as if that’s what it means to be an adult.  Even children’s movies can’t seem to stay away from a little sexual innuendo or suggestive content.  Showing two people having sex or implying it is often the easy way out for movie directors, as it allows them to show a connection between the characters without having to work out another way to get that point across.

Of course, one of the main problems with this presentation of sexuality is that by-and-large, what is presented and promoted is sinful: sex outside of marriage, lusting, etc.  Not that that isn’t bad enough in and of itself, but there’s a greater issue.

The problem with this message isn’t just that it is fuels lust, but that it gives a false picture of what matters.  Believe it or not, life’s not about sex.  I’m sure sex is great and all (don’t confuse being a virgin with being asexual), but it’s not the end-all be-all even in it’s proper context, marriage. No wonder there are more and more people that are addicted to pornography.  They’ve been sold the idea that the good life=sex and they’ve bought it.

My message quite simply is, life is not about sex.

Photo by mikebaird

How Well Do You Know Ronnica?: The Answers

First of all, the scoreboard:

Jen 90%
(she’s very proud to have won…she’s a bit on the competitive side)
Elizabeth 80%
(I’m impressed…but I guess you have the benefit of knowing me in RL and my blog)
Dori 70%
(some of these were particularly easy for her…but others weren’t)
Amanda 70%
(not bad…better than I did on yours!)
Dana 60%
(I’m actually surprised on this one…but I guess the little stuff tripped you up!)
Liz 60%
(Good job!)
G. Zoe 50%
(You weren’t as bad as you thought!)
Sleepy Jane 50%
(not bad for mostly guesses!)
Iva 30%
(no, I want unfriend you!)
Francesca 30%
(because you picked the wrong person to copy off of!)

And now, the answers:

1. What nickname did my family give me?
a.  Ronni
b. Bubby – or Bub, for short.  I have no idea how this got started, but I’ve been told I’ve had it since I was born.
c. Short Stack
d. Ronni Jon

2. How many boyfriends have I had?
a. 0
b. 1
c. 2
d. 3 – a very long time ago

3. Which reality show do I not watch?
a. American Idol – I watched part of one season, but after watching SYTYCD, it’s a whole lot more boring.  This is a hard one, because I don’t know that anyone but Dana knows that I’ve watched Survivor at all!
b. So You Think You Can Dance
c. Survivor
d. The Amazing Race

4. What country would I live in if I couldn’t live here?
a. Turkey – love this place
b. Australia
c. Mexico
d. Italy

5. What’s my favorite sport to watch?
a. Major league baseball
b. College basketball
c. College football – Boomer Sooner!
d. Professional golf

6. What is my favorite non-Pixar Disney movie?
a. Beauty and the Beast
b. Little Mermaid
c. Sleeping Beauty
d. The Emperor’s New Groove – I enjoy most of the princess movies, but this one beats all for sheer entertainment value.  Hilarious.

7. What is my favorite sport to play?
a. Volleyball
b. Tennis – though I rarely do it.  It’s hard to find someone who is as bad as I am yet still knows the rules.
c. Basketball
d. Softball

8. If I had to eat the same type of food everday for a month, which would I choose?
a. Mexican – yum, yum, yum.  I miss good Mexican (Tex Mex, really).
b. Italian
c. Chinese
d. Milk and cereal

9. Which is NOT a pet peeve of mine?
a. Others using the same knife as me to spread butter – I’m not a germaphobe.  Yes, the other three things really bug me, just ask anyone who’s lived with me!
b. Doors being fully opened/closed
c. Light in the room while I’m sleeping
d. Things being symmetrical and/or at right angles

10. If I had to, which movie would I be most likely to quote word for word?
a. Legally Blonde
b. one of the Pirates of the Caribbean movies
c. one of the Ocean’s movies – Ocean’s 12 specifically, though I have a good grasp of the other two as well.
d. Enchanted

And a bonus question:

If I didn’t have to worry about making a living, I would want to be:
a. A dancer
b. A writer – Not that surprising, I know.  I’d also like to teach, though.
c. A teacher
d. A musician

How Well Do You Know Ronnica?

You know those quizzes on Facebook about how well you know someone?  I avoid all such things over there, but I thought it’d be fun over here.  Are you game?  Answer the following multiple choice questions in the comments, and I’ll reveal tomorrow the true answers!

As always, remember to pick the BEST answer, some of these are tricky! Some answers might be able to be found on my blog. Even if you’re taking shots in the dark, I’d love to see what impression you have of me.

1. What nickname did my family give me?
a.  Ronni
b. Bubby
c. Short Stack
d. Ronni Jon

2. How many boyfriends have I had?
a. 0
b. 1
c. 2
d. 3

3. Which reality show do I not watch?
a. American Idol
b. So You Think You Can Dance
c. Surivivor
d. The Amazing Race

4. What country would I live in if I couldn’t live here?
a. Turkey
b. Australia
c. Mexico
d. Italy

5. What’s my favorite sport to watch?
a. Major league baseball
b. College basketball
c. College football
d. Professional golf

6. What is my favorite non-Pixar Disney movie?
a. Beauty and the Beast
b. Little Mermaid
c. Sleeping Beauty
d. The Emperor’s New Groove

7. What is my favorite sport to play?
a. Volleyball
b. Tennis
c. Basketball
d. Softball

8. If I had to eat the same type of food everday for a month, which would I choose?
a. Mexican
b. Italian
c. Chinese
d. Milk and cereal

9. Which is NOT a pet peeve of mine?
a. Others using the same knife as me to spread butter
b. Doors being fully opened/closed
c. Light in the room while I’m sleeping
d. Things being symmetrical and/or at right angles

10. If I had to, which movie would I be most likely to quote word for word?
a. Legally Blonde
b. one of the Pirates of the Caribbean movies
c. one of the Ocean’s movies
d. Enchanted

And a bonus question:

If I didn’t have to worry about making a living, I would want to be:
a. A dancer
b. A writer
c. A teacher
d. A musician

Fiction is Just Fiction?

books and TVI love to read.  That’s nothing new.  Many of you read, too.  There’s two major reasons why we read: to learn and to be entertained.

Yet, even the reading for entertainment requires discernment.  Though I’m just a baby fiction writer (“embryo” might be the better term…a complete novel has yet to be birthed), I know that part of why I write is to express my worldview.  Even if that wasn’t my obvious goal, my worldview is bound to work itself into the piece.  Even the more entertainment-only authors still express a worldview.

That’s why I don’t buy arguments for books like The Shack that say, “It’s just fiction” as if that’s code for “no thinking allowed” or “for entertainment purposes only.”  I imagine William Young would take offense if you were to tell him that it was a great story but nothing more.  I don’t want to speak for him, but I’m pretty sure he meant there to be a deeper purpose behind his writing than just a pleasant way to spend an afternoon.  It’s the same thing for many other books and authors, though it might not be as clear.

Lest you TV-watchers and movie-goers think you’re in the clear, these forms of media are also excellent conductors of worldview.  Possibly more so, since we tend to be in a more passive position (rather like a sponge) when we’re imbibing them.  I love these types of visual entertainment, but I also enjoy parsing them a bit.  I listen for key value statements and look for stereotypes.  The world of a show or movie is often what the creator makes it…is there a part of reality that has been written out?

When I see these things, I ponder them, and when I have a young, captive audience, I’ll point them out, too.  Thankfully, Lana didn’t mind me pausing the movie to point out something…like how often the Star Wars characters entreat each other to look to their feelings for validation (more often on the dark side, but both do it) as if that was the final source of truth.

So what do you think…do you think fiction can just be fiction?

Photo by swruler9284

Comforts of House and Home

My comfort clothes:
My PJs: oversized flannel pants that my mom makes and old t-shirts (pretty much wear them any time I’m at home)

My comfort foods:
Diet Dr Pepper (not technically a food, but so true)
Chocolate chip ice cream with chocolate syrup
Mashed potatoes
Fried rice
Chicken noodle soup

My comfort movies:
Enchanted
Ocean’s 12
27 Dresses
10 Things I Hate about You
not really a movie, but it’s on DVD: Gilmore Girls

My comfort books:
The Chronicles of Narnia series
Pride and Prejudice
Little Women
Sense and Sensibility
Ender’s Game

Comfort activities:
Reading in my reading chair or outside
Looking at my flowers
Watching TV with my parents, leaning on my dad
Driving alone in my car, singing and dancing to something fun (more often than not, Maroon 5)
Spending time journaling, reading my Bible, and praying, laying my heart out before God

HT: The Seamstress of Avalon

My Ten Favorite Movie Moments

Every once in a while, there’s a scene in a movie that’s just perfect.  The lines are right, the actors are playing the part right, and the cinematography and music (or maybe the lack there of) put it in just the right life.  These are the scenes in movies that I want to watch over and over again:

1o.  This one will seem random, but I really like the scene in the second Pirates of the Caribbean between Lord Beckett and Elizabeth, and Beckett admits that currency, not loyalty, is the new currency of the empire.  The dialogue is witty, intriguing, and the whole scene is fraught with tension.

9.  In Mona Lisa Smile, when Julia Roberts’s character confronts Julia Styles’s, helping her to realize that maybe it’s not selling out if a woman chooses a family over a career.

8.  In the first Pirates of the Caribbean, when Will sees Jack and asks him where Elizabeth is.  I LOVE Jack’s reply, “She’s safe, just like I promised. She’s all set to marry Norrington, just like she promised. And you get to die for her, just like you promised. So we’re all men of our word, really. Except Elizabeth, who is in fact, a woman.”  Yes, I’m a dork.

7.  The Pop! “music video” in Music and Lyrics.  SO cheesy…but that just makes it better.

6.  In 10 Things I Hate about You when Kat is reading her version of Shakespeare’s sonnet listening all the things she hates about Patrick which is topped by the fact that she doesn’t hate him.  I’ve so been there.

5.  Ocean’s 11‘s exes in the restaurant scene (the one I quote here).  Julia Roberts and George Clooney are a couple of my favorites to watch on screen, but their verbal sparing in this scene is top notch, even for them.  When I watch the movie (which I do fairly frequently), I have to watch that scene a couple of times in a row.

4.  Mr. Collins’s introductory scene in the latest Pride and Prejudice.  Between only half his head being seen at our first glimpse at him (emphasizing he’s a half-wit) to his overdone compliments throughout the scene, I think that this scene is more entertaining to watch than it was to read in the original done by Austen herself. (Tom Hollander who plays Mr. Collins, also plays Beckett in the last two Pirates movies, so he actually makes this list twice.)

3.  When Libby talks to Bailey for the first time after she finds out that the girl has cancer in Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.  I think it’s a mix of the look on Tibby’s face (brutally perfect!) and the straightforwardness of Bailey’s lines.

2.  In Mansfield Park, When Fanny is reading Edmund’s letter, and he professes that Mary, not she, is “the only woman he could think of as a wife.”  Not exactly the thing you want the man you love to say, is it?  The scene is all the more perfect when Fanny seeks comfort in Henry’s arms.

1.  Enchanted‘s “So Close” scene, the one at the end where Giselle and Robert are dancing.  The music, the lyrics, the whispered singing in the ear, the looks on their faces…ahh.

So what about you?

Book Quotes and One from a Movie, Too

Here’s what I’ve found interesting this week:

“I thought: if I could just make a good family, if I could just learn to be to other children their whole lives, what Andrew was coming so late into ours, then that would mean more in the long run, it would be a finer accomplishment than anything I could ever do with my mind or my hands.” – Xenocide by Orson Scott Card, p. 298

“If it is really true that it is hard for us, as adult Christians, to comprehend even a chapter of the Old Testament in sequence, then this can only fill us with profound shame; what kind of testimony is that to our knowledge of the Scriptures and all our previous reading of them? ” – Life Together by Dietrich Bonhoeffer, p. 51

“You’re doing it for no better reason than because you think you’re right….That’s the conceit I’m talking about–the idea that it matters who’s right or wrong.  It’s the most insufferable form of vanity, this insistence on always doing right.  How do you know what’s right?  How can anyone ever know it?  It’s nothing but a delusion to flatter your own ego and to hurt other people by flaunting your superiority over them.” – Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand, p. 429

“I wait for the LORD, my soul does wait,
         And in His word do I hope. 
    My soul waits for the Lord
         More than the watchmen for the morning;
         Indeed, more than the watchmen for the morning. 
    O Israel, hope in the LORD;
         For with the LORD there is lovingkindness,
         And with Him is abundant redemption. 
    And He will redeem Israel
         From all his iniquities. ”
- Psalm 130:5-8, NASU
 

“The danger of labeling things ‘Christian’ is that it can lead to our blindly consuming things we have been told are safe and acceptable.  When we turn off this discernment radar, dangerous things can happen.” – Velvet Elvis by Rob Bell, p. 86

“People compare Saddam’s megalomania and terror to that of Hitler and Stalin, which I think he would like, since I know he kept their books on a rollaway trolley he sometimes had a servant bring out so he could read after dinner.” – Between Two Worlds by Zainab Salbi

 I know this isn’t technically from something I’m reading, but I had to quote it anyway, as I was watching my boys the other day (Ocean’s…11 this time). This my all-time favorite scene from the trilogy (and possibly any movie…it’s hard to top verbal banter between two of my favorite actors in my favorite roles):

Tess (Julia Roberts): “You’re 30 seconds late. I was about to send out a search…”
Danny (George Clooney): “Hello, Tess.”
T: “What are you doing here?”
D: “I’m out.”
T: “You’re out?”
D: “Of prison. You remember the day I went out for cigarettes and didn’t come back?”
T: “I don’t smoke. Don’t sit.”
D: “Now they tell me that I paid my debt to society.”
T: “Funny, I never got a check.”
D: “You’re not wearing your ring.”
T: “I sold it. I don’t have a husband, or didn’t you get the papers?”
D: “My last day inside.”
T: “I told you I’d write. Danny, go now before…”
D: “What? Benedict?” (to waiter) “How you doing? Whiskey and a whiskey.”
T: “Danny.”
D: “Tess, you’re doing a great job curating the museum. The Vermeer is quite good. Simple. Vibrant, but his work definitely fell off as he got older.”
T: “Remind you of anyone?”
D: “And I always confuse Money and Manet. Now which one married his mistress?”
T: “Monet.”
D: “Right. And then Manet had syphilis.”
T: “They also painted occassionally.”
D: “All right. I’ll make this quick. I want to move on with my life, and I want to take you with me.”
T: “You’re a thief and a liar.”
D: “I only lied about being a thief. I don’t do that any more.”
T: “Steal?”
D: “Lie.”
T: “I’m with someone now who doesn’t have to make that kind of distinction.”
D: “No, he’s very clear on both.”
T: “You know what your problem is?”
D: “I only have one?”
T: “You’ve met too many people like you. I’m with Terry now.”
D: “Does he make you laugh?”
T: “He doesn’t make me cry.”

Dreams, Chipmunks, and Holidays

Jacki asked, “So have you had nightmares yet about unfinished homework?? I went through withdrawal symptoms, and would wake up thinking I had to finish homework.”

Nope, not at all.  I had a two different dreams last night about taking a pair of church kids with me on a trip without their parents’ permission (they were begging me to go, I wasn’t kidnapping them!), but no dreams whatsoever about school or homework.

Brenda said, “Speaking of Enchanted…that is one of our favorites around here too. However, my oldest brother was appalled when the chipmunk pooped! He said Walt would roll over in his grave! I laughed so hard!”

I think it worked fine, but I appreciate more the humor in the dialogue.

Elizabeth, born and raised in NC, said, “Be careful! People in North Carolina generally drive crazy on a day when the sun is out and the road is dry much less cloudy with snow!”

Very good point.

Jennifer commented on my Valentine’s Day post, “This was wonderful. What I hate about Valentine’s Day is what I hate about all holidays – the commercialism (how very Charlie Brown of me). Even for the not so single girl it has become a day of obligation for husbands and boyfriends and a day to “prove” something.

I like your take on the holiday so much more. A focus on Christ enriches EVERYTHING. Makes it what it should be.”

And finally, Khadra is like me: “I used to play the same way as a kid. I would love to do taxes as a career. I have told my husband this before and he thinks I am insane lol!!”

I prefer the term “special.”

Have a great weekend, everyone!  It’s gorgeous here today…I’m about to go on a walk without a coat or jacket!

OPI Trial and Practicing What I Preach

Last night I was on my way to the pool when my roommate called me to see what I was up to.  She and our ex-roommate were planning on hanging out at our place and ordering Chinese food.  It took me about 30 seconds to realize I should break my plans and routine–good as they were–to hang out with my roommate who I’ve not spent time with in a week and a good friend who I’ve not spent much time with in several weeks.  Plus, Chinese food is always a draw.
While we were eating dinner, I noticed a small package addressed to me and instanty knew what it was.  When I interviewed Smoochiefrog last week, I asked her if OPI is really worth it, as she really enjoys it.  She offered to send me a bottle to try, and so she sent me “Rosy Mistletoesies,” a sparkly pinkish-red.  I decided to paint my nails while we watched Enchanted
(I seriously love that movie, even if it’s a sad reflection on the modern-day fairy tale…I could listen/watch to those songs, especially “That’s How You Know” and “So Close” everyday for the rest of my life and not get tired of them).
Here’s what they look like:
My OPI fingers
My OPI fingers

 Cute!  I didn’t put my usual top coat on over it, though, so it’s starting to rub off on the tips of a couple fingers, but I really like it!  Smoochiefrog, I think I will invest in some different colors every once in a while.

My OPI fingers blog
My OPI fingers blog